Customer Service FAIL
While I appreciate your desire to gather valuable opinions from your customers in order to improve your service, you might want to wait to ask about my experience until after my shipment arrives. Like salt in a wound, receiving the email link to the survey before the item itself served only to remind me how frustrated I was that it had yet to appear on my doorstep.
~ Frume Sarah
Replaced
You’ve just been ousted as the mayor of Congregation Fill-in-the-Blank!
That was the subject heading of an email that I received on Saturday night.
Sorry for the bad news, but Plonit-bat-Plonit has just ousted you as mayor of Congregation Fill-in-the-Blank!
Don’t take it too hard – a few more check-ins and you could be back on top…Good Luck!
– Your friends @ foursquare
But it’s not really bad news, foursquare friends. And I won’t be “back on top.” It is bittersweet, to be sure. But I am not meant to be the mayor any longer. Time for others to step into the roles that I once filled.
{{sigh}}
Home
In his desire to give me as much time to myself as possible, PC encouraged me to stay out until the kids were fast asleep.
I tried. Really I did.
But how long can one stay at a restaurant before it just looks strange?
And the Barnes & Noble closed fifteen minutes after I got there.
And the Panera was closing even earlier than usual.
So I came home. To children who wanted my attention. And a husband who wanted my attention.
It was nice to be away.
And it is nice to come home.
“Albany, Schenectady, Troy, Delmar, and Colonie”
Gender-Bending
It was, given my lifelong proclivity towards the literary realm, an honest mistake. With scant culinary exposure, I was unaware that the process of reducing certain elements in a liquid via intense heat produces a concentrated, and slightly altered, version of the original mixture. Hence, reduction.
Just two days later, arriving at the Port Authority Bus Terminal, the etymology of the word ‘airport’ zipped through my mind. Ah…of course. A port that is a point of entry via air travel rather than some other mode of transportation. Or something to that effect.
I love words. I love the interplay of the letters, their roots, their history. I am enthralled with the relationship between them. And, especially in Hebrew, fascinated by the theological, sociological, and political implications peering out from the characters on the page.
How very surprised I was to hear the following observation from Georgetown University lecturer, Maureen Corrigan, book critic for NPR’s Fresh Air:
It also, I must say, feels very much like a “boy book” to me — all this thinking about thinking; all this meditation on language. Maybe women — so socialized into constantly scribbling “to do” lists — don’t tend to write meditations like this on the instability of words.
My interests and habits are well-established.
But what if I had heard Corrigan’s review of Leaving the Atocha Station at a younger, and far more impressionable, age? Would I have left my innate interest behind in search for a more feminine subject? Would I have learned to categorize books based on gender-interests and, therefore, avoided some because they were “other?”
Or would I have been far too busy thinking about the origin of the word “Atocha”?
Enjoy the Silence
{{silence. nothingness. infinite space.}}
I am reminded of John Cage’s controversial 4’33”, in which the musicians perform an entire composition…in silence.
The lacuna. The intentional silence. Meant to encourage tranquility. Or to create tension. It is the space in-between. An internal bein hashmashot. And though that space is intangible, its weight bears down on the soul.
It is here that I will re-envision who I am meant to be. And what Torah I bring to the world.
Border Crossing
So what is Frume Sarah doing in a program that defines itself by attitudes such as the following:
A Rabbit Rabbi Without Borders places limited importance on boundary questions and realizes that they are personal rather than policy issues. We all need boundaries (even borders!), but they exist because of our need, not because of some absolute and independent necessity.
The first day of the seminar included multiple-layered reflections, a conversation with Dr. Gustav Niebuhr, text study, and food. My head is spinning. I am in awe of the depth of knowledge and passion of the other participants.
And am still wondering if I am ready to cross the boundaries that both restrain and comfort me…



















